Helping people to take an objective look at their situation
The first Monday of the New Year is often referred to as ‘Divorce Day’ as it’s a time known for a surge in enquiries to family lawyers. But according to The Family Law Company, the majority of people getting in touch in January aren’t rushing into divorce.
Divorce specialist Rachel Buckley says that often enquiries are from those looking for information, options and sometimes reassurance after the busy Christmas period. Not all of them will go ahead with the divorce process.
‘Some people are worried that by contacting a family lawyer, they may have to make decisions straight away,’ explains Rachel.
‘This is a common question and why it is important to emphasise that simply seeking advice on divorce doesn’t mean a commitment to proceeding.’
She talks through some of the frequent questions the team are asked when people approach them for advice and help.
Rachel explains one of the most common questions is ‘What are my options if we’re unsure about separating?’
She explains there’s a variety of routes available, including couples counselling and mediation (the team can also point people towards experiences professionals who can support them through their decision-making).
‘It is important to emphasise that simply seeking advice on divorce doesn’t mean a commitment to proceeding,’ explains Rachel Buckley. Image: Poppy Jakes.
Finances and the family home
Second on the list of questions is ‘How does separation affect finances and the family home?’ Rachel explains that financial concerns can prevent someone from going ahead with a divorce – even when it’s clear that their marriage is over.
The team aim to provide experienced advice on a particular situation with the aim of allaying fears of future financial vulnerability.
Another frequently asked question revolves around settling things – without going to court. She explains there’s a strong emphasis on finding solutions that don’t involve going to court.
Rachel adds these are called non court divorce resolution options and include collaborative law and an approach called ‘one lawyer, two clients’ where a couple have the same lawyer to help them work through their situation.
She adds that, by not going to court, the chances are that a couple can remain more amicable (especially important when there are children involved).
The Family Law Company offers a free half-hour initial appointment which aims to help clarify the situation for those contemplating divorce.
‘While some will decide that their marriage has reached the end of the road and that they want to continue with the process, others find that discussing the realities of a divorce can help them to take an objective look at their situation and potentially find a way through.’
Breaktime News recently reported on The Family Law Company’s Everyday Bravery campaign which sees nominations open until January 31.
